- Never be jealous of other writers’ success. Carol was a master at this, and it came from an inner self-contentment and knowing who you are and how good you are. When I sold my first book, she was elated. When I won a very big award for it, she rejoiced. Not once did she ever see anyone else’s success diminish hers. I loved this about her, and finally, after a lot of years in the business, I feel as she did.
- Be nice. Everybody loved Carol. At conferences, everybody KNEW Carol. She introduced me to scores of people, set up a meeting once for me with her agent and made sure she complimented my work when editors were around. I loved Carol, too.
- Don’t take your job too seriously. This is a lesson I have yet to learn, but I’m better about it. Carol saw writing and her success in it as just part of her life. She was happily married and had grandchildren she loved and spent time with. She was always dragging me away from the computer for lunch together or dinner and trips with our husbands. I do more of this now, but Carol would tell me I don’t do enough.
Finally, I’d like to tell everyone I have a new book out from Superromance, Back To Luke, in bookstores now. Carol would want me to do this because, though she didn’t obsess about the business, she did indeed promote herself.
Most of all, remember Carol’s story. It will only make you a better writer and a happier person.
Kathryn Shay has been a lifelong writer. Though she spent much of her adult life as a teacher of high school English, she published her first book in 1995 for Harlequin Superromance. Since then, she’s published 25 Superromances (with 3 more on the way), ten mainstream romances for the Berkley Publishing Group, two novellas and three online reads. One of these novellas was excerpted in COSMOPOLITAN magazine in 2003. She has won five RT BOOKClub Magazine Reviewers Choice Awards, three Holt Medallions, four Desert Quill Awards, the Golden Leaf Award, and The Bookseller’s Best Award. Visit Kathryn's website www.kathrynshay.com