Instead, the Scots allowed for other forms of such rituals—for marriages in particular but also for birth, baptism, and death. Therefore, Fiona was well within her rights (if not particularly smart) to elope originally with her awful lover, because she did not require parental approval and would not have required it as long as she was over the age of consent (which was twelve then for a female in Scotland and refers, believe it or not, to her ability to consent, not to the consent of her parents.)
Arranged marriages, which were nearly always (negotiated) contract marriages, were typical only of the upper classes. But by Scottish law, any woman could legally refuse to marry if she disliked the arrangement and was willing to assert herself and damn the consequences. Noble fathers were always powerful influences.
In the Highlands, women’s rights were nearly equal to those of the men in their clans. A woman could even be chief of the clan if elected. In the Isles and elsewhere, she had the right to attend great councils, which by law had to be open to all who wanted to attend, and to speak her mind there when she did.
By contrast, in England and most European countries, a woman was not even an entity under the law until she became a widow, when her rights were generally equal to those of men. Before that, however, under the law, she was just her father’s daughter or her husband’s wife. The father or husband, therefore, was the responsible entity in court and could do pretty much as he pleased with his wife or daughter.
Otherwise, in most countries other than Scotland, a woman did not exist legally. After the Union, even in Scotland, many rights other than the marriage rights altered to imitate English laws, including, for a time, the Scotswoman’s right to testify in court.
Therefore, in the fourteenth century, although Fiona’s trustee, Kirkhill, could manage her property, the property itself remained hers even if he should marry her, and she could will it to her children or elsewhere, as she liked. And, even after the Union, those property and marriage rights did not change.
My own heritage links strongly to the Scottish Borders, where men did tend to think more as their counterparts across “the line” did, that daughters and wives should always submit to their “wiser” counsel. But if the anecdotes from my ancestors are any indication, such thinking was more wishful than true to life. One need only think of the great Scott whose wife plunked his spurs down on his plate whenever their larder needed replenishing. He was a reiver, was he not? Get out there and “find” beef!
Divorce in medieval Scotland was practically unknown, but in England, women could not sue for divorce, period, until the mid-nineteenth century, even for cruelty. Only husbands could sue, and they could cite any number of acceptable reasons.
Moreover, an Englishwoman could not testify in court, so if her husband lied through his teeth, she had no recourse to counter him by herself. That was true even if her husband was brutal to a point that would have resulted in prison or hanging if he had done the same things to another man.
About the only good thing about being legal chattel was that her husband was generally deemed responsible for most of her actions (and his children’s as well). Divorce was not an option in England until the Reform Act of 1853, unless the unfortunate woman could manage to get to Scotland.
Scotland had its Court of Sessions, which would grant divorces to women in cases of cruelty, abandonment, adultery, and other such abuses. A problem could arise, however, if the woman then returned to England, because her husband would still have every authority over her there…unless he sued for divorce from her in Parliament.
The reason Scotswomen had such rights is that by Celtic tradition, women had always had the right to speak their minds and to make decisions for themselves. Naturally, the tendency spread throughout the country, and most of us Scotswomen have guarded those rights remorselessly. Hopefully, we will all continue to speak our minds and stand up for our rights and those of other women until they bury us.
Editor's Note: Don't miss Lady Fiona's story in Amanda's latest novel Tempted by a Warrior which was released July 1, 2010.

Scottish Man & Women ~ 12th century
Amanda Scott is an USA Today best selling Author and has sold over 50 romance novels and is the recipient of the Romance Writers of America's prestigious RITA Award and their Lifetime Achievement award in 2007. She began writing on a dare from her husband and has sold every manuscript she has written. Twenty-five of her novels are set in the English Regency period (1810-1820). Others are set in 15th-century England and 14th- through 18th-century Scotland, and three are contemporary romances. You can visit Amanda at http://www.amandascottauthor.com/
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