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t. Audrey ~ June 23rd
How, one might ask, can so many saints come out of one family? My opinion is that women had to be saints to live with, or rather escape their serial monogamistic husbands. What’s a serial monogamist? A man who marries one wife, puts her away in a nunnery when she either doesn’t produce or is too much trouble, then marries anew. But that’s off the subject. Back to Audrey.
Audrey refuses to consummate her first marriage with the Scotsman Tonbert, head of a tribe in the highlands, and is still a virgin when he dies three years later. At this point she retreats to Coldingham Abbey where she becomes a nun under St. Ebba. A few years later she moves south again and founds what will become the great abbey at Ely. There, she lives an austere life. (Monks really like it when women who have been rich go on to live austere lives.) After many peaceful years at the abbey, Audrey develops a tumor on her neck which she gratefully accepts as Divine retribution for all the necklaces she wore in her early years.
She dies in 679 and her body remains uncorrupted, thus securing her sainthood. Her head is preserved in Ely and in religious art she is depicted as an abbess, holding either a crozier, book, rod, or lily.
There is, however, another much more dramatic story about Audrey. In this one her father marries her off to a new man even though she’s already a nun. I suppose the justification is that if a man can send his wife to a convent so he can remarry, then a father should be able to extract said woman from a convent so he can marry her off again. If this is the case, then Audrey’s dad must have really needed a daughter to marry off. He no doubt knew the sort of trouble this would cause.

St. Audrey
or Ethelreda in Old English
At any rate, Audrey isn’t willing to give up her vow of virginity and holds her frustrated husband off at arm’s length. He, on the other hand, is no doubt desperate to have a child to secure the bargain with Audrey’s dad. He eventually even tries bribing (Saint) Wilfred, Abbot of York, to release Audrey from her vows. Wilfred isn’t going for it. Instead, he helps Audrey escape and they flee to the south with her irate husband on their heels. When they reach Colbert’s Head, a promontory on the coastline, God intervenes, sending a seven day high tide that prevents Audrey’s husband from reaching her or Wilfred.
Sensing that the cards are against him, he wisely retreats and marries someone more willing. The story proceeds from there as above, with Audrey as abbess at Ely.
This story has a neat little twist at the end, though. During the reign of Henry I, the abbey at Ely was granted the right to hold a fair which began three days before Saint Audrey’s day and continued for seven days. For the most part, the fair participants sold cheap, trifling objects to the pilgrims visiting Audrey’s shrine, especially neckerchiefs, which is either very ironic or because the neckerchiefs were “blessed” to ward off growths of the neck. The result of this poor workmanship is the development of the word tawdry, a corruption of the words Saint Audrey.
Denise Domning's first medieval romance, Winter's Heat, received the Romantic Times award for Best First Historical Novel in 1994. Spring's Fury, Autumn's Flame, A Love for All Seasons were respectively nominated by Romantic Times for Best Medieval Novel in 1995, 1996 and 1997. Her first Elizabethan novel, Lady in Waiting, was recommended by Publisher's Weekly as well written and researched, with an accurate portrayal of Elizabeth I. Denise is currently co-authoring an autobiography with Monica Sarli about her life entitled No Regrets. Denise's website is www.DeniseDomning.com.
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